From Simple to Extraordinary
How one man’s story of Father-Son Love inspires millions of students
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We Stand For
The Silent
Stand for the Silent has become a leading and influential force in the anti-bullying movement, committed to raising vital awareness about bullying and its devastating effects.
Our Core Initiatives
Host an Anti-Bullying Presentation
Stand for the Silent delivers impactful anti-bullying presentations globally, reaching thousands of schools, community centers, places of worship, and various organizations. Our unwavering commitment: to ensure widespread awareness of the profound consequences of bullying.
Education Scholarships
Stand for the Silent offers scholarships in memory of Ty and Laura Smalley. Eight $5,000 scholarships are awarded annually, split between spring and fall sessions. Additionally, $2,500 state-specific scholarships are available. These scholarships honor students who share Laura’s passion to fight bullying and teen suicide. Applicants must be graduating seniors.
Stand Out Program
The SFTS Stand Out Program acknowledges positive student actions. Each week during the spring and fall semesters, one student receives a Stand For The Silent t-shirt and a $50 gift card. At semester’s end, one weekly winner receives a $100 gift card, presented at their school.
Resources
Explore essential mental health and anti-bullying resources on SFTS’s Resources page. We partner with vital organizations dedicated to supporting individuals and preventing teen suicide. Find tools, support, and information from trusted sources, all aimed at fostering well-being and combating bullying.
Our Commitment to Change
6,700+
Schools Visited Worldwide
4.5M
Students Reached (In-Person & Online)
195K
Personal Messages Received
$207K+
in Scholarships Awarded & Growing
Real Stories, Real Impact
These are the voices of individuals who have experienced the impact
of Stand for the Silent. Their stories inspire us to continue our work.
SFTS’s presentation at our school was definitely the most impactful assembly we’ve had on bullying and suicide awareness. Kirk Smalley is genuine and powerful in his delivery of his story, and the impact these sensitive topics have had on his family. He connected directly with students and staff in a way few individuals can.
Telesis Preparatory Academy
My daughter attended your presentation yesterday at Norfolk Collegiate. She was a victim of bullying behavior through the years. And, also recently, Her official bully, Noah, came to her after your presentation and apologized, hugged her, and asked her to forgive him. WOW! This was a powerful moment in Gabby’s life and she was moved by your words.
Norfolk Collegiate School
Since your presentation, we’ve seen more suicide awareness talks in our community. You sparked vital conversations in schools, homes, and town. Student meanness has decreased in our schools. Parents have thanked us, saying it changed their child’s life. It truly made a difference.
Redfield Public Schools
Kirk, I go to middle school, and I just wanted to say that you changed my world forever. You are inspirational. I have been bullied, and I have been a bully. If I could, I would go back and change any time that I have been a bully to anyone. I will now stand for the silent. You are my hero. God bless.
Student
We Want to Hear From You!
Kirk Smalley, our founder, has dedicated 15 years to combatting bullying. He values personal stories and connection. He’s personally responded to over 195,000 messages. Share yours.
JOIN THE MOVEMENT
Start a Stand for the Silent Chapter!
Imagine a school where every student feels safe, supported, and empowered to stand up against bullying. You can make that vision a reality! By starting a Stand for the Silent chapter, you’ll join a network of passionate individuals committed to creating positive change.
We provide all the tools and resources you need to launch a successful chapter. From planning meetings to organizing impactful events, we’ll guide you every step of the way. Ready to make a difference?
Support Our Mission
We founded Stand for the Silent after losing our son to bullying. It’s a fight we can’t wage alone. Your donation, no matter the size, directly impacts lives and helps us bring awareness to this critical issue. We’re deeply grateful for your support.
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Shop with a purpose. Every product — apparel, accessories, and more — directly supports Stand for the Silent’s mission to end bullying. Buy great items and build a more inclusive future.